After a rather long yet truthful article...I actually found a little more things to add to it...so here goes..
Well having received mixed views on the 'moving on' stage,feel the need to build on it...As a person decides to 'move on' there are many hindrances one experiences...I believe that the whole 'I'll-take-it-all-in-my-stride' isn't realistic...none can claim to do it with perfection...its only humane to think about the "what-ifs" so as to say...There come stages when you feel being insensitive will help, or shying away from the problem is the best option you got,or you doubt yourself in one too many ways....On observing certain instances,one feels that positive thinking bordering on idealistic and wishful thinking is the best way to cope up with the changing times...but then sometimes idealistic thinking can take you away from reality,it is totally upto the individual not to get carried away...
Prolonged observation and experiences entitle me to safely assume that these things are common to all...no exceptions...Honestly, moving on is an uphill task.Precisely why how you handle it is what matters....whether one is able to diguise one's personal life or not is his/her personna,just be careful not to start fabricating the truth to yourself...and also so long as you don't make a spectacle out of it nobody will bother to intrfere-you get all the privacy required to handle delicate issues!!! Implying the magnamity of your problem isn't the answer to anything....its all about focussing on coming out of your 'black hole', its tough no doubt but then what isn't?!!
Today,attitude, well right attitude is what matters the most!!! Attitude has a really important role to play.Being composed and working things out is the prescribed way to handle dicey matters.Yet (obviously) attitude differs from person to person,not all can be calm and pose to the world that they can 'handle-it-all'.Its all part of the learning experience.It is true that what one has to bear the consequences of their actions,so might as well act smart and stand out than screw up and be 'standing out'!!!
